The Dutch may have a reputation for being blunt and direct, but in the meantime they leave much unsaid because they cannot deal with conflict. While conflict is the key to good governance, says researcher, advisor and author Marilieke Engbers. Connect? Fine, but don't avoid tensions, she warns. Because dealing with a conflict together is the recipe for trust.
https://secretarius.nl/hoe-harder-je-conflict-wegpoetst-hoe-harder-je-het-in-je-vuurt/